popular with the men! And that may be part of the problem. Because you are so outgoing and confident, some women might feel intimidated by you. You need to establish friendships with women who are just as sure of themselves as you are. So, be friendly, try to meet lots of people and open yourself up to new friendships. Also, if you are a good listener, it doesn’t matter how popular you are with the guys, women will want to be your friend, and want to hear your advice! ... making female friends ...